

Fiore defines procrastination like this: Procrastination is a habit you develop to cope with anxiety about starting or completing a task or a decision. It is your attempted solution to cope with tasks that are boring or overwhelming. When you use The Now Habit strategies to lower your anxiety, fears, and self-doubts, you can stop using procrastination as an escape and can double your productivity. When you learn to work efficiently—in the Flow State or Zone, using more of your brain-cell power—you have less reason to avoid important, top-priority tasks.

However, procrastination becomes a habit through its rewarding system:
1. an indirect way of resisting pressure from authorities since you cannot openly rebel
2. a way of lessening fear of fairlure by provinding an excuse for a disappointing, less-than-perfect performance
3. a defense against fear of succes by keeping us from doing our best
Since procrastination can be learned, it can be unlearned also. The Now Habit works on negating the effects of the Puritan Work Ethic "you production determines your worth" and Freudian Views "your lower self must besubdued and disciplined by society. Instead, the book helps you reestablish a working relationship withink yourself that lessens inner conflict and allows you to engage your whole self in your task.
The ten tools of The Now Habit are:
1. Creating psychological safety to lessen fear of failure
2. Reprogramming negative attitudes through positive self-talk
3. Using the symptom to trigger the cure
4. Scheduled guilt-free play to reduce resentment toward work
5. Three-dimensional thinking and the reverse calendar
6. Making worry work for you and coping with distractions
7. The Unschedule (love this word!)
8. Setting realistic, not guilt-producing, goals
9. Working in the flow state
10. Controlled setbacks to practice recovering from failure
As I learn more about The Now Habit, I'll put up periodic posts to cover the entire book.
Romanistas, any thoughts on what I've summarized so far?
Oh, wow. I am alarmed as to how accurate this sounds. However, get the pressure of overhead/payroll behind you and you won't procrastinate. Well, I say that, and half my thank you notes from my birthday are now two weeks late... So consequence definitely works to combat procrastination for essential things, but non-essentials will slide. (And then I will beat myself up for being late...)
ReplyDeleteAs for us working mothers with aspirations for creative endeavor on top of the needed day job and the never-ending laundry... We're just gluttons for punishment -- we will never get everything done. Period. Even if we procrastinate about nothing...